A brief guidebook to the choice of our first swingers club
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If for some time unusual fantasies have been sneaking in your marriage, and in your mind a little woodworm seems to be restlessly working; if confiding to your man or woman you both find out a persistent desire to experience the physicality outside the bedroom; if you imagine to meet other couples who share your same secret dream, you’re probably ready for your first visit to a swingers club.
Well, how to decide which swingers club to attend?
The first step is choosing the most suitable place for a couple who wants to approach the libertine world calmly, avoiding the mistake of bringing your loved one to a sleazy and poorly attended place.
Please, keep in mind that your first time is important, especially for female sensibility, and from the first glance you get of the lifestyle often depends the rest of a fantastic voyage, or a quick return on your steps.
So, you will do a Google search, finding out that by associating the term “swingers club” to the name of your country, many results will appear.
Of course, you will be visiting the web sites of several clubs, but this will not help you a lot: every club is described as the most refined, elegant, discreet, and the meeting point of the nicest couples.
How to get out of this impasse?
Here’s some advice.
As a start, read up through the discussion forums, trying to distinguish between unreliable opinions and those comments who seem more serious and considered.
You can’t beat SDC.com, which is the holy bible of the libertine world.
Then, compare the schedule of the events that usually the websites of swingers club publish, and evaluate who seems to be the addressee of the offer.
If most of the evenings appear to be single-men oriented, if the billboard sees frequent pseudo-pornstars shows, if there is no trace of “couples only” events, you’re probably facing a club that derive most of its profit from the attendance of single men, and pays a low attention to “rookies” as you are.
In this situation, you may find yourselves surrounded by many men and only a few couples.
Forget not: a serious club dedicates its best evening to couples, avoiding single men.
Once you find the libertine club that seems to be right for you, pick up the phone and ask for information, or send an email: if calling, consider the politeness and completeness of the data provided to you, pay attention whether you find reliability, competence, patience in responding, or approximation and reticence; if e-mailing, see the promptness in answering your questions, and small but important details, such as spelling and syntax, which may provide some clues about the level of the management.
Never be afraid to ask, because clearing up any doubt is your right as, we say it again, you are facing an important step.
Ask the annual cost of membership, how to gain access to the club, and what is included in the fee for each night.
At this point, after collecting all the data you need, you’ll be ready for your debut in the libertine world.
Thus, here you are in front of the entrance door of your first swingers club: you will probably feel excited and fearful at the same time, you would like to already know everything, have all the events revealed in advance, find out if your fantasies find a match.
In the previous days you have asked yourselves a thousand times: “What can we expect from our first experience in a swingers club?”
We will try to offer an answer to this question in our next article.
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